What happens when children engage in risky play?
Our instinct is often to protect children by stepping in. But when we pause, stay close, and leave room for a manageable challenge, children learn to trust their bodies, assess risk, and discover what they can do.
Educators discuss how climbing, building fires, using tools, and other Land-based experiences can help children develop confidence and practical judgment. They invite adults to distinguish between supporting safety and removing every challenge.
Risky play includes experiences that feel exciting, uncertain, or challenging. On the Land, a child might balance on a log, move through deep snow, climb a tree, or learn to use a tool.
These moments allow children to test their abilities and make decisions. A child notices whether the ground is slippery, adjusts their footing, or decides they have climbed high enough.
Risky play is not reckless play. Adults still observe the environment, remove hazards, and remain ready to help. The shift is in allowing children to manage challenges they can see and understand.

Sometimes support sounds like:
“I’m nearby.”
“How does that feel?”
“What is your plan?”
A brief pause before stepping in can tell a child: I see what you are doing, and I trust you to think.
Try it in Your Practice: Pause Before Stepping In
The next time a child begins something challenging, take one breath before responding.
Ask yourself:
- Is this a hazard the child cannot recognize, or a challenge they may be able to manage?
- Does the child appear focused and in control?
- Can I move closer without taking over?
If support is needed, try a question instead of “Be careful”:
- “How steady does that feel?”
- “Where will your foot go next?”
- “What could you do if it becomes slippery?”
Notice what the child does when given a little more time.
REFLECTION QUESTIONS
What might become possible if you stayed close without taking over?
What did the adults around you teach you about risk?
When are you most likely to step in quickly?
Explore More Within TREES
- More videos related to early learning and play are housed on the Video library
- MFI offers curriculum and learning resources focused on early learning.
- Using MFI’s Early Years Toolbox resource? This reflective activity is related to the Toolbox Card Risky Play
TAKE YOUR LEARNING FURTHER
- Fireside Chat: Relationship with Risky Play from the Child and Nature Alliance of Canada. Dawn Ottereyes, Jacqueline Bennett, and Susan McGarvey consider risky play through Indigenous perspectives, including whether “risk” is always the most useful language for children learning on the land.
- Indigenizing Outdoor Play by V. Angela James, Chloe Dragon-Smith, and Wendy Lahey is an important grounding for understanding outdoor play through relationships with land, community, and children as capable people.



